Ungabuphuhlisa njani ubuchule ebuntwaneni: 8 izakhono ezingafezekiyo

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Kutheni le nto abanye abantu benobuchule obungummangaliso kwaye abanye bengoyilo kangako? Zeziphi izinto ezimisela olu phawu emntwini? Ngaphandle kwamathandabuzo enye yazo yimfundo kunye nenkuthazo efunyanwa ebuntwaneni. Namhlanje sinayo USandra Burgos de Uqeqesho lwe-30k. Kolu qeqesho oluncinci uza kulungisa enye yezona ngxoxo ziphikisanayo neziphikisanayo kwicandelo lethu. Ngaba ubuchule bokuyila buya kukhuthazwa kwaye bukhuthazwe ukusuka ebuntwaneni?

Khumbula ukuba ungarhuma yakho Youtube isiteshi Ukuze ungaphoswa naluphi na uqeqesho oluncinci kubunkokheli nakwezobuntlola kwezentlalo, ungabhalisela kwisitishi sethu apho aya kuthi athethe nathi malunga neengxaki kunye nemicimbi kwicandelo lethu endiqinisekileyo ukuba iya kukunika umdla kakhulu. Yonwabele le vidiyo! Qaphela!  

Okulandelayo siza kubona noSandra kwaye ngokufutshane, zeziphi izakhono ezisi-8 ezithi, ukusebenza kakuhle ebuntwaneni, zivelise ukucinga okucwangciswe ngokugqwesileyo. Saqala!

  • Ukusombulula ingxaki

Isakhono sokuqala sokuphucula ubuchule ebuntwaneni kukusombulula ingxaki. Dlala nentombi yakho okanye nonyana wakho ukusombulula imibuzo eyahlukeneyo. Ayisiyonto nje yokuba uyazi ukusombulula iingxaki zezibalo, kodwa ucinga ngemibuzo yemihla ngemihla. Umzekelo, ungabuza ukuba umntu ohlala kumgangatho we-XNUMX angazicoca njani iimfama ngaphandle.

  • Ukuzazisa

Isakhono sesibini sokuphucula ubuchule ebuntwaneni kukuzazisa. Okukhona umntwana enamandla ngakumbi, kokukhona amathuba ancitshisiweyo ekuboneni ahlala ekonwabela kubomi bemihla ngemihla. Qinisekisa ukuba uchitha ixesha elithile, rhoqo, ukucinga ngaye. Dlala imidlalo yokuzazi nokuzazi. Umzekelo, ungathatha ithuba lomnye womsindo wakhe umcele ukuba achaze indlela aziva ngayo, ukuba ucinga ntoni kumenza azive ngolu hlobo, ucinga ukuba uyakuva njani xa umntu emnceda.

  • Imvakalelo yokujonga izinto

Isakhono sesithathu sokuphuhlisa ubuchule ebuntwaneni sisimo sengqondo. Oku kunzima ngakumbi ukusebenza ngokukhawuleza. Kuya kufuneka ucaphukise iimeko ukuze usebenzise obu buchule. Khangela kwi-intanethi, umzekelo, kwiingxaki zokuziphatha. Bahlala bebenza abantwana bazibeke ngokwabo ngokusekwe kwiinkolelo zabo kwaye baphinde bacinge indawo yabo ngokongeza iinkcukacha ezincinci kumabali.

  • Uvelwano

Isakhono sesine sokuphucula ubuchule ebuntwaneni ngovelwano. Uya kuba namathuba amaninzi okusebenza kweli nqaku nonyana okanye intombi yakho. Umzekelo, xa ubona umntu okhathazekileyo okanye onomsindo esitratweni, ungababuza ukuba bacinga ukuba baziva njani kwaye bacinga ukuba kungenzeka ntoni ukuze bazive ngaloo ndlela. Ingakumbi! Xa umfundela ibali, ungambuza ukuba kutheni ecinga ukuba umlinganiswa ngamnye wenza ngendlela enza ngayo ... nabantu ababi!

  • Ukunyamezela

Isakhono sesihlanu sokuphuhlisa ubuchule ebuntwaneni kukomelela. Oku malunga nokuba nakho ukuziva kamnandi kwakhona emva kwamava angathandekiyo. Ngokucacileyo, ayisiyiyo eyokubangela amava amabi ukuba amnike ithuba lokuziqokelela. Kodwa kuya kuba kuhle ukuba uthathe ithuba kuzo zonke ezo zinto zenzeka ngokwendalo ukumfundisa ukuzinqoba kwaye umbonise ukuba inguquko ukusuka kwimeko yeemvakalelo ukuya kwenye sisigqibo anokuthi enze kuphela yena.

  • Unxibelelwano olufanelekileyo

Isakhono sesithandathu sokuphuhlisa ubuchule ebuntwaneni lunxibelelwano olufanelekileyo. Kwaye uyazi ukuba yeyiphi ekuphela kwendlela yokuba unyana okanye intombi yakho isebenze kobu buchule? Ukunxibelelana kakuhle. Yonke into onakho kwaye kuzo zonke iifomathi onokucinga ngazo. Ncokola naye busuku ngabunye, mcele ukuba azobe abahlobo bakhe kwaye akuchazele ngomzobo, ucebise ukuba niyile ingoma kunye ukubulela uMakhulu ngekhekhe lakhe ... kwaye kubaluleke kakhulu: ungalibali ukuba unxibelelwano ayisiyonto yokuthetha kuphela , kodwa ukumamela nokutolika. Ngale nto, akukho nto injengokubuza imibuzo, imibuzo kunye neminye imibuzo malunga nokuba bathini abanye abantu, yenza, zoba, ucule ...

  • Umsebenzi weqela

Isakhono sesixhenxe sokuphuhlisa ubuchule ebuntwaneni kukusebenzisana, kwaye le yeyona nto kulula ukuyicaphukisa. Dlala naye, thethana ngemithetho yomdlalo kwangaphambili, vumelanani ngento eza kwenzeka ukuba umntu wophula umthetho. Kwelinye icala, unokwenza ikhekhe kwaye uthathe isigqibo sokuba ngubani oza kwenza ntoni, okanye usasaze imisebenzi xa ubeka ukuthengwa kwifenitshala yasekhitshini.

  • Ukuthatha ingozi

Isakhono sesibhozo nesokugqibela sokuphucula ubuchule ebuntwaneni kukuthatha umngcipheko osempilweni. Intombi yakho okanye unyana wakho kufuneka ayazi loo nto, ngamanye amaxesha, kwizigqibo akukho ndlela ichanekileyo icacileyo. Ngamanye amaxesha kufuneka ubeke umngcipheko ekuthatheni isigqibo ungazi kakuhle ukuba siyakuba yintoni isiphumo, oko kukuthi, ukuzibeka emngciphekweni wokuba esi siphumo asisiyiyo esiyifunayo. Mbonise imizekelo yoku kwaye, xa kunokwenzeka, menze umthathi-nxaxheba kwisigqibo.


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