Ukubaluleka kwentsapho kwimpilo yethu, ngokwezifundo, yinto efanelekileyo kakhulu. Ekubeni kungekuphela nje imikhwa esinayo njengabantu ngabanye echaphazela impilo yethu. Zininzi ezinye iimeko esingazilawuliyo, njengempilo yabazali bethu, kwanangaphambi kokuba basikhawule. Kodwa kwakhona, ngexesha lokukhulelwa. Yiyo loo nto kukho imikhwa ethile abazali abafanele bayenze xa befuna ukuba nabantwana.
Kodwa ezi zifundo zityhila ukuba akukhona kuphela kule meko ngqo xa inokusichaphazela. Xa sinesifo esifana nesifo seswekile, kusenokwenzeka ukuba kungenxa yemfuza yentsapho yethu. Yiyo loo nto kubalulekile ukwazi, sakuba badala, sazi ukuba sityekele kwintoni na ebomini bethu. Indlela yokuzama ukuphepha umonakalo ongaphezulu, umzekelo, ukudala imikhwa engcono. Yile nto iGenogram yenzelwe.
Ngokomzekelo, ukuba isalamane sethu sinesifo seswekile eninzi, mhlawumbi sinokulizuza njengelifa. Kodwa ukuba kwasekuqaleni siyayilawula imikhwa yethu yokutya sizama ukukuphepha oku, sisenokungabi nayo ingxaki efanayo. Okanye kwimeko yakho, sinolawulo olungaphezulu kwaye alusichaphazeli kakhulu njengoko kulindelekile. Yiyo loo nto kulungile ukwazi ukuba yintoni iGenogram kwaye yeyantoni.
Yintoni iGenogram?
Inkcazo yobugcisa ngakumbi yeGenogram kukuba i «ukumelwa kwemizobo ngesixhobo esirekhodisha ulwazi ngoKWAKHIWA kunye/okanye nokwakhiwa kosapho (i-genogram yesakhiwo) kunye noBUDLELWANE kunye/okanye UMSEBENZI phakathi kwamalungu ayo (igenogram yobudlelwane), ubuncinane bezizukulwana ezithathu”.
Okanye yintoni efanayo, isicwangciso esibonisa isakhiwo sonke kunye nendlela intsapho yakho eyakhiwe ngayo ubuncinane kwizizukulwana ezithathu ezidlulileyo. Oko kukuthi, abazali, ootatomkhulu nootatomkhulu kunye nootatomkhulu bamelwe kwesi sicwangciso, ziziphi iingxaki abanokuthi bahlupheke kuzo kwaye bubuphi ubudlelwane abanabo nawe? Ngaloo ndlela, iingxaki onokuba nazo kwixesha elizayo zinokubonwa kwangaphambili.
Ngokusetyenziswa kweesimboli, ivumela lowo udliwano-ndlebe ukuba aqokelele, abhalise, anxulumanise kwaye aveze iindidi zolwazi oluvela kwinkqubo yosapho, ngexesha elithile ekuveleni kwayo, ngokungathi yi-x-reyi kunye/okanye ifoto kwaye iyisebenzise ukusombulula iingxaki, imfundo kunye nothintelo kwimpilo yomntu kunye nosapho.
Le ndlela yokujonga ulwakhiwo losapho onalo ngokucacileyo yeyexeshana. Yiyo loo nto njengoko ingcambu yentsapho ikhula, kuya kufuneka sihlaziye inkqubo yethu yosapho. Ngale ndlela siya kuhlala sihlaziywa.
Uyilo lweGenogram
Lo unoyilo olukhethekileyo. Ukusukela ukumela lonke ulwazi esithe sathetha ngalo ngaphambili alusekelwanga kumanani kunye noonobumba. Ekubeni iqokelela ulwazi oluninzi, idibanisa kwiisimboli ezithetha iziphumo ezahlukeneyo eziboniswayo. Njengoko zinokuba sikwere, isangqa, isikwere esiphindwe kabini okanye umnqamlezo. Bonke bamele icebo. Siza kucacisa ukuba yintoni nganye.
- Cuadrado: Lo mqondiso umele indoda
- Isangqa: Lo mqondiso umele umfazi
- Isigulana: Kule meko, kwisigulane ngasinye isimboli simelwe ngomgca ophindwe kabini. Nokuba isangqa sabasetyhini okanye isikwere samadoda
- Umnqamlezo: Olu phawu lumela isalamane esingasekhoyo.
- Triángulo: Imele ukumitha kwesihlobo ngelo xesha
- Imida engaqhubekiyo. Oku kumisela umda wamalungu akwikhaya elinye.
- Inkunzi ifanele iye ekhohlo ize imazi iye ekunene. ukuba sisibini.
- Abantwana bafanele baodolwe ukususela komdala ukuya koyena mncinane. kwaye ukusuka ekhohlo ukuya ekunene
- Ku isisu encinci imelwe isangqa esigxininisiweyo
Ukumela yonke imisebenzi yesi sikimu, njengoko sinokubona kumfanekiso, iimanyano zenziwa phakathi kwamalungu entsapho. Le mivumbo idityaniswe kwiisimboli ezimele imeko nganye esiye sayichaza kuluhlu. Imigca emibini, umzekelo, imele ubudlelwane obusondeleyo phakathi kwezihlobo ezibini ezizimanyayo. Kubudlelwane obuphikisanayo okanye obungekhoyo, umgca ophukileyo.
Izinto eziluncedo zeGenogram
Ezi zifundo zosapho, njengezinye izifundo ezininzi, zineengenelo ezithile.. Kodwa bakwanazo nemida ethi, nangona ibenza bathembeke, babekwe yimiba ethile. Eli tyala alifani, kuba iGenogram ayikwazi ukugubungela yonke into. Ekubeni akuxhomekanga kuye kuphela, kodwa nakumntu ekwenziwa kuye esi sifundo. Apha siza kuchaza ezinye iingenelo enazo.
- Isigulane sinerekhodi yonyango ecwangcisiweyo
- Inefomathi yegraphical efundeka lula kwaye uqonde
- Ithanda ukucaciswa kweengqikelelo ezichane ngakumbi malunga nonyango lomguli.
- Iququzelela imfundo yesigulane ukwazi yonke into ekuchaphazelayo
- Ubungqina beendlela ezithile zezifo.
- Imele ubume bosapho lwakho, into ebalulekileyo ukuzazi.
- Ikuvumela ukuba uchonge ezinye zezinto ezenza into exhaswa sisigulana (abazali, abantwana, iqabane...)
- Yindlela yokufumana ulwazi olungokweemvakalelo yesigulana ngaphandle kokuphazamisa kakhulu
Ukongeza kwezi ngenelo zophononongo, umntu ofuna ukuluqhuba ubonisa ezinye iimpawu ezintle. Njengomdla wokuphucula, ukwazi intsapho yakhe nokunyamekela abo bamngqongileyo kunye nokuzinyamekela. Into ebalulekileyo ukugcina indawo enempilo kwindawo yakho. Kunye nokuseka ubudlelwane obufanelekileyo obuchaphazelayo naye wonke umntu osingqongileyo.
Iingxaki
Nakuzo zonke ezi zibonelelo sizibonayo, ekucetyiswayo, olu phononongo lukwanazo nezingeloncedo esiza kuzibona apha.
- Ukungabikho kwentsebenziswano kunye nesigulana. Kuba kuthatha ukunyaniseka okupheleleyo kwicala lakho.
- ixesha elifunekayo ukufezekiswa kwayo
- Ubonakalisa imeko ngexesha elithile, ngoko kufuneka yenziwe "ngokuqhubekayo".
- Ulwazi oluvela kumntu omnye inokugqwetha ubunyani bophononongo.
Yiloo nto kubalulekile ukuba abantu abaliqela bentsapho enye baqhube isifundo., ukuba nombono wehlabathi jikelele woko kwenzeka entsatsheni. Ngaloo ndlela, imiba enokuthi ifihlwe lelinye lamalungu ayinakufihlwa ngamanye.