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Uyayikhumbula imifanekiso eyayineencwadi zakho xa wawusemncinci? Zibaluleke kangakanani kuwe?
Kule posi siza kubalaselisa ukubaluleka komzobo womzobi wabantwana, ukongeza ekuboneni ukuba zeziphi iimpawu ekufuneka ubenazo ukuba ufuna ukuba ngomnye wabo.
Ukubaluleka kwemizekeliso ebuntwaneni
Abona bancinci baqala ukukhula kwabo ngokwasengqondweni ngokuqala baqonde imifanekiso enamacala amabini abayimilisayo kunye nokudibana negama. Kwaye ayisiyiyo le nto kuphela eyenza inani lababonakalisi labantwana likhiye ebuntwaneni. Njengokuba ivumela ukukhula kwengqiqo, ukunceda umntwana ukuba aqonde umhlaba omngqongileyo, ukuphucula intelekelelo kunye nobuchule kunye nokwenza ukuba akwazi ukuqonda iimeko ezinzima kunye neengxaki ngendlela elula kakhulu. Ukongeza, ikuvumela ukuba uphinde uvelise imifanekiso oyibona ikujikeleze ngohlobo lwemizobo, ukulungisa iikhonsepthi.
Ukulungiselela le nto, kubalulekile ukuba umsebenzi womzekeliso unothotho lweempawu ezenza ukuba zilungele kwaye zibukeke zibukeke emntwaneni.
Iimpawu zomzekeliso wabantwana
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Umbala yinto ephambili kumzekeliso wabantwana. Iincwadi ezinemibala zitsala umdla womntwana ngendlela enamandla kwaye zimmema ukuba anike ingqalelo ebalini.
Enye into ephawulekayo kukubalisa amabali, ezinokuqulatha isicatshulwa okanye imifanekiso elula ebalisa ngokwenzekayo ngokwabo. Amabali abantwana ahlala ejongana nemixholo eqhelekileyo kubantwana abancinci, enjengokunxibelelana nabahlobo babo, ukushiya i-pacifier ngasemva, ii-adventures nee-diapers zabo nokunye okuninzi. Kuzo, iingxaki kunye nokuphathwa kwabo ngabalinganiswa kuyatyhilwa, njengomxholo wokufa, oko ke kunika imfundiso elula necacileyo abaya kuyifaka ngaphakathi, ukubanceda kwixa elizayo.
Inkqubo esetyenzisiweyo iyafana, kwiimeko ezininzi, ukuya imizobo abanokuzenzela yona. Ukusetyenziswa kwegouache kunye ne-watercolor yeyona nto ixhaphakileyo, ukongeza ekusiboneleleni ngombala onamandla.
Njengoko inqanaba lemfundo liqhubeka, isixa sombhalo esixhasa imizekeliso siyanda, kodwa imifanekiso ihlala inexabiso elisisiseko.
Olunye uhlobo lwabazobi babantwana ngabo basebenzisa iindlela zekholaji, bazixube neminye imizobo abayipeyintayo okanye abayila ngokwamanani, nto leyo ekhokelela kwiziphumo zoqobo nezobuchule.
Ke, ukuba lolu hlobo lomzobi, kubalulekile ukwazi kwengqondo yomntwana kunye nokukhula kwemifanekiso ngendlela yokomfuziselo, njengabantwana. Imizobo emininzi isebenzisa imihla ngemihla incwadi yomzobo okanye bazobe incwadi, apho babamba khona yonke into ebangqongileyo ngokungathi ngabantwana.
Amaxesha amaninzi siqhele ukufuna ukwenza izinto ngokugqibeleleyo kwaye senze umsebenzi okwenyani. Kule meko, kuya kufuneka senze umva, siyeke isandla sidwebe nantoni na esiyifunayo ngokukhululekileyo, njengoko abantwana besiya kwenza. Ngumcimbi wokuziqhelanisa.
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Apho ungayifaka khona imifanekiso yabantwana bakho
Imizobo yabantwana ayenzi nje iincwadi zemifanekiso. Yintoni egqithisile zifunwa kakhulu kwamanye amacandelo njengomzekelo kwizinto zokudlala, uyilo lwamalaphu, uyilo lweemveliso zokubhala kunye neetetera ende. Kwicandelo lezorhwebo, kubalulekile ukuba ubambe umdla womntwana ngokujonga imifanekiso.
Ngokubanzi, ii-brand zihlala zinxibelelana nabazobi abanesimbo esichazayo okanye esichaziweyo, nangona uninzi lwazo luthanda amagcisa ahlukeneyo, anokukwazi ukuziqhelanisa neendlela ezahlukeneyo kuxhomekeka kwimveliso. Nokuba unendlela yakho okanye awunayo, into ebalulekileyo kukuba yinto ethile yobugcisa Kwaye uyayithanda into oyenzayo, ucinga ngokwenza imisebenzi emihle ngaphezulu kwesiphumo sokugqibela sayo, kuba ngale ndlela uyakonwabela uhambo.
Ulindeleni ukuba uvule iphedi yakho yomzobo kwaye uqale ukupeyinta ngazo zonke iiyure?