Ubuchule bungaphezulu kweendlela ezingaphezulu okanye ezingaphantsi zethiyori, ubuchule bokuyila yindlela yokuphila, Umgaqo osebenzayo esinokuwusebenzisa kuzo zonke iinkalo zobomi bethu, kungekuphela nje ngokomsebenzi. Ngaba ungumntu odala izinto? okanye uyafuna ukuba?
Imbonakalo yoyilo kwihlabathi Kuthetha ukuba masilahle amakhaka, parapets, iidyasi, kunye nezinye izinto ezinenjongo eyodwa kukuthintela ukubonakala kwethu kunye nobudlelwane obuncinci bobuqu, ukubandakanyeka kwethu kwinkqubo yoyilo.
Sabani ngokunkqaya nokuphindaphinda imizobo, nivuselele iingcinga, nidibanise ngokukhululekileyo izimvo, nibe nohlalutyo olunzima ze nenze izisombululo. Yiloo nto ayenzayo umntu odalayo.
Ubuchule bubuchule bokwenza into, ukuyazisa okokuqala, ukuyenza ukuba izalwe, okanye ukuvelisa into engekhoyo. Xa sithetha ngentengiso, imalunga nokunikezela ngesisombululo esingazange sabonwa kwingxaki yonxibelelwano, ukuhanjiswa kolwazi malunga nemveliso, inkonzo, umbono, umntu ...
Fumana eyakho indlela yokuyila
Bathi i-chameleon ayazi ukuba umbala wayo unjani kude kube sekuphepheni, njengoko kwenzeka okufanayo kubantu bokudala. Bahlala bekhangela intsingiselo kunye nobukho babo, kwinjongo emsebenzini wabo, ukwakha indlela yabo yokuphila ... Ngokudalwa kwabo, bayazichaza, banegalelo kuyo yonke into abayifumanayo njengeziponji kubaxhasi babo, abahlobo, indawo kunye noluntu. .
Nangona kulungile ukwazi ukuba zininzi iithiyori kunye nezifundo ngalo mbandela ezizama ukuchaza ukuba unjani umntu oyilayo, ekugqibeleni zonke ziyavavanywa ziimvakalelo zethu njengezinto eziyilayo. Ngamanye amagama, akukho nkcazo inye yendalo, nganye inendlela yayo kunye nendlela yayo.
Umzekelo, uninzi lwezi theyori ludla ngokuchaza umntu oyilayo njengoyena ubalaseleyo kwaye abe ndlongondlongo, xa olu luphawu olungekhoyo kuzo zonke izinto ezenziweyo kwaye, kungasathethwa kangako ke kubazobi. Ngelixa liyinyani, ukuba lifuna isibindi esithile kunye nobuganga bokuvula iindlela ezintsha, idosi yobunkokheli kunye nokuzingisa okunxiba abantu bokuyila ngamandla athile, ngobukho obuhlazo.
NgokweYunivesithi yaseCalifornia - apho bekukho izifundo ezimbalwa malunga nomntu oyilayo kunye neempawu zakhe - umntu oyilayo ngumntu ozithandayo, ogciniweyo, osebenza nzima kwaye onomdla. Unomfanekiso ngaye njengomntu onoxanduva, othabatha isigqibo kwaye phantse azive enomdla wokuzithemba nobunkokeli.
Into eqinisekileyo kukuba amandla luphawu olubalulekileyo kuzo zonke izinto ezenziweyo xa ujongene nomsebenzi. Sinika yonke into, njengoko kungekho ngomso. Sisebenza nzima, kodwa sinomdla. Kungenxa yesi sizathu samandla ephindaphindayo. Kuyafana nokuba sothandweni, ukugcina umgama.
Ngaba uziva uchongiwe?
Ubukrelekrele obukhulu beemvakalelo kunye nengqiqo busisiseko kuyilo. Ngaphaya koko, imalunga nokulingana phakathi kwezi hemispheres zombini, -kwindlela yam yokubona-, ukubonelela ngezisombululo zoyilo kwiingxaki kodwa ngengqiqo, phantse imvelaphi yesayensi. Ngaba ukhe wacinga ngokufana phakathi kweenzululwazi kunye nezobugcisa? Nangona kubonakala ngathi banokubonakala ngenye indlela, bobabini oososayensi kunye negcisa bahlala bekhangela iindlela ezintsha kunye nezisombululo ezintsha.
Umntu oyilayo unombulelo ongazenzisiyo ngethiyori yobuhle, ngemixholo abanokufunda kuyo kwaye abanokukhuthazwa ukuba baqhubeke nokwenza ubuchule kuyilo lwabo. Ziziseko zomsebenzi, indawo oza kuqala kuyo ukwakha ingomso.
Ubuchule bokwenza izinto ngumntu ozimeleyo, kokubini ngokusebenza kunye nengcinga, othatha izimvo zakhe kwiziphumo zokugqibela. Kuyangeniswa ngandlela ithile, ngamanye amaxesha, njengoko izimvo zihlala zibekwa zodwa, nangona zithanda ukwabelana ngazo. Kungenxa yesi sizathu ukuba ukusebenzisana ngokubumbeneyo (endiza kuthetha ngako kwesinye isithuba) ngamanye amaxesha kunzima kakhulu.
Ndifuna ukulumkisa ukuba eli nqaku ngumxube wezimvo zam kunye nedatha eqokelelwe kwizifundo, kuba kudala ndiphanda ngalo mbandela. Nceda, makungabikho mntu uyibona ifundisa kuba ayizonjongo zam konke, kukukhuthaza ingxoxo-mpikiswano omenyelwe kuyo.
Kukho umba endicinga ukuba unomdla ukuwubalaselisa ... Ubuchule sisipho ekungenguye wonke umntu onaso, esinokuconjululwa size siphuculwe, esinokufundiswa kwaye sibe nokuxhaphaza ngakumbi, kodwa kakhulu, kakhulu Kunzima ukuyifumana ukuba awunayo njengomgangatho. Andiqondi ukuba ndiyayazi into enokufunyanwa njengomntu ofunda ukuqubha okanye ukukhwela ibhayisekile, sisakhono onaso okanye ongenaso kwaye kufuneka usazi. Zininzi iindlela zokwenza izinto kodwa wena okanye awukho, kwaye kulo msebenzi kukho amaxesha apho loo nto ilibalekileyo kwaye ayinguye wonke umntu onobuchule
Ngokupheleleyo ngokwe-dashaft, esi "sipho" siqala ukubonwa ebuntwaneni, kulapho siqala khona ukukhula nokuphucula, ukusifumana kamva kunzima kakhulu, kwaye kunzima ukufikelela kwinqanaba elinamandla ... kodwa into esingafanele ukulibala kukuba kufuneka uqhubeke nokuphuhlisa kwaye uphucule ubomi bakho bonke, kuba xa "ukhululeka" uhlala ujonga izinto ezilula kwaye uwela kwizinto eziqhelekileyo, uyeke ukuba nobuchule bokuba ngumatshini. =)