UThomas Romain ngutata okwazile ukutshintsha imifanekiso ebhalwe ngabantwana bakho ibe yimifanekiso yokwenene enabalinganiswa abaphawuleka. Kwaye nokuba sithi "ukubhala", inyani yokuba izimvo zincinci kule ndlu ziyamangalisa.
Abantu abadala bafundisa abancinci, njenge yenzeke nale nkwenkwezi enkulu kunye nengubo ekhethekileyo. Into efana ne-Romain kunye nonyana wakhe kunye nabalinganiswa bakhe bayamangalisa kangangokuba uyakwazi ukuvelisa ingqondo kunye nobuchule bomntwana omncinci kangaka.
Singaphantse sibabize abo imizobo ebhalwe njengemixholo kunye nemibono ukuze utata athathe ipensile ngesandla kwaye aqale ukumnika inkangeleko yabantu abadala ngakumbi kwaye esikuqhelileyo nezo ziqhawe; sishiya kwakhona ikhonkco kumrhumo owenziweyo komnye wabazali beli sini.
Njengoko utata ebonisa, ukuzoba kunzima kwaye kuthatha iminyaka ukuziqhelanisa nayo ukuze ube kwinqanaba elifanelekileyo lobuchwephesha. Singathetha ngombono, ukwakheka, ukukhanya kunye nezinye izinto ekufuneka zenziwe kakuhle ukuze sikwazi ukuzimela ngokupheleleyo ekuzobeni.
Ukuba kuya kuhlala kukho amaqhinga, njenge thabatha izimvo zabantwana bakho kwaye uzijike zibe ngamaqhawe, kodwa kuya kuhlala kuthatha umzamo kunye nesakhono esincinci kunye neetalente.
Njengoko ebanga, kukho imigaqo ethile. Ngabo baphakamisa imixholo ngaphandle kokuba abasenampembelelo. Umbala nawo ubaluleke kakhulu kwaye loo mizobo yakho kufuneka ifakwe imibala. Kuyinxalenye yomsebenzi wakho. Njengotata, uya kuhlala ethatha isigqibo sokuba yeyiphi imizobo ayakuyiguqula ngenqanaba lakhe elikhulu lokuzoba.
Sikushiya ne I-instagram yakhe for ukuba ungalandela uhambo lwalo tata kunye nemizobo yabantwana bakho eguqulelwe kuzo zonke iintlobo zabalinganiswa oopopayi.
Yinto entle. Kumzekeliso wesibini, kwaye ukucinga ngo-Isaya 45 6-7 umntu unokuqonda ukuba umntwana ongekabikho (ke) akafundiswanga unako ngakumbi ukuqonda ubunyani bokuba "uthixo".
Ewe, ukutolikwa kwabantu abadala kwimizekeliso yomntwana kulungile kakhulu. Uhlobo oluthe kratya "lwenyani" ngaphakathi kwilizwe lomlingo, kunjalo. Nangona kunjalo, ndibambelela kwimvelaphi, kubonakala ngathi banika inkululeko engakumbi yokutolika. Ukuqhubeka nokudweba zombini, nto leyo emnandi !!. Ukubulisa.
Kuya kufuneka sijonge ukuba bazokuzoba njani xa sele bebadala. Ngokuqinisekileyo bayadlula utata!