Tsarin da aka gudanar zai iya barin mu da ƙwarewar ƙwararru da gamsuwa ta mutum, musamman ma lokacin da abokin ciniki yake buɗewa ga ra'ayoyinmu kuma ya amince da shawararmu. Koyaya, wannan ba yawanci lamarin bane a kowane yanayi kuma yana iya zama takaici idan muka kyale shi.
A matsayinka na ƙa'ida, abokin ciniki yana da buƙatar yin magana da masu saurarensa, aikinmu shine sa saƙon ya isa kuma ya cika aikinsa. Wani ɓangare na aikinmu ya wuce rufe kanmu a cikin kumfa mai ƙira da barin shi ya gudana cikin kwamfutar, da farko, dole ne mu san abin da dole ne mu cimma kuma saboda wannan dole ne mu aiwatar da wani Hankali.
Menene wannan game da Hankali? Sanin abokin ciniki ne, abubuwan da suke sha'awa, abin da basa so ko kiyayya, nawa suke son biya da lokacin isarwa. Wannan bangare ne da ke bamu mafi karancin alheri, tunda hakan ya dauke mu daga idylling na zane, tunda gaskiyar ta bambanta, mun tsara ne don wasu ba don kan mu ba. Saboda haka, zan lissafa wasu shawarwari don sa wannan abokin harka / mai kera dangantakar ya zama mai amfani kuma ba mummunan mafarki ba.
San abokin cinikin ka
Bayan tuntuɓar, muna buƙatar yin wannan daga Hankali, wanda ba komai bane face tambaye shi kwastomominsu game da aikin. Daga aiki da gogewa tare da sauran masu zane, dangantaka da launuka, siffofi, font. Yanzu, yawanci yakan faru ne cewa abokin harka yana da cikakkiyar ma'anar jagorori ko bai san abin da yake so ba ko kawai ya gaya muku "Ban sani ba, wannan shine abin da mai tsara shi yake". Wannan shine lokacin da zamu iya bincika tare da abin da shi da gasar sa suke yi. Wannan ra'ayi na farko yana da mahimmanci, kamar yadda yake nuna ƙwarewar ƙwarewa a ɓangarenmu kuma za mu sami amincewar abokin cinikinmu.
Iyaka
Kowace dangantaka tana dogara ne akan tattaunawa, kuma wannan ba banda bane. Don wannan dole ne bayyana ma'anar aiki, kwanan wata, adadin daidaitawa da lokacin isarwa. Ina matukar ba da shawarar rubuta yanayin, abin da ke ɓangarenmu da abin da ba aikin ba. Sau da yawa muna jin kunyar cajin gaba da magana game da kuɗi don ƙarin gyare-gyare. Yi shi, zai kiyaye maka ciwon kai a nan gaba.
Ba na so
Haka ne, yawanci yakan faru. Kun yi ƙoƙari a ƙarshen mako, kun daina jin daɗin abokai kuma a ranar Litinin guga ta ruwan sanyi: abokin ciniki bai ji daɗin shawarar ba. Babu abin da ya faru, ci gaba da aiwatar Hankali da tashar. Dama ce ta tunani a wajan akwatin.
Ra'ayin wasu kamfanoni
Kai, ka rasa na biyu! Wannan matakin alama ce ta cewa sadarwa ba ta yin tasiri. Wannan shine lokacin da nake amfani da kayan aiki na "Ra'ayin Partyangare na Uku". Yi bincike tare da mutanen da suka shafi abokin harka. Za a iya ɗauka sababbin ra'ayoyi game da zane daga waɗanda ba ku tsammani ba.
Abokin ciniki koyaushe yana da gaskiya
Mun san cewa ba koyaushe haka yake ba. Idan abokin harka ya zabi zane don dandano da fasalin sa, kuma hakan ba shine mafi alkhairi a gare shi ba, to kwararre ne a bangaren mu ya zama mai gaskiya a ce "Bada shawara" A "shine wanda nake ba da shawara a matsayin mai tsarawa, idan kun yanke shawara a kan zaɓi "B", ci gaba. " Kada kayi jayayya da abokin harka yayin da yake shakkar wani ra'ayin wanda ba nasa ba. Da kaina, rashin sanya shi a cikin fayil na ya isa.
Yi farin ciki da tsarin kirkire-kirkire da abubuwan dake tattare da shi, a ƙarshen rana, abokan cinikin wahala sun bar mana darasi: Don barin girman kanmu, san yadda za a saurara kuma a tuna cewa aikinmu shine mu sadu da tsammanin kwastomomi, ba namu ba.
Hoton - Antonio Moubayed