Ngaba ucinga ngokuqalisa iprojekthi entsha kunye nokuqala indlela eya kwinjongo entsha? Ukuba kunjalo, eli nqaku linokuba luncedo kuwe. Emva koko, iqabane lethu USandra Burgos de Uqeqesho lwe30KIza kusazisa ngendlela yokukhulisa, esona sicwangciso sinomdla sokujonga kwaye sijongane nalo naluphi na uhlobo lomngeni. Ndiza kukushiyela ulwazi ngokubhala kunye nenguqulo yevidiyo. Ngaba ubusele uyayazi indlela yokuKhula?
Igama lendlela, KHULA, ngesiNgesi elithetha "ukukhula", kungenxa yoonobumba bokuqala bamaNgesi bezigaba ezi-4 ezenza le nkqubo.Ndicebisa ukuba ube nephepha nepeni elisebenzisekayo ukuze ukwazi ukusebenzisa le ndlela njengoko ndikuchazela yona . Zive ukhululekile ukumisa ividiyo kaninzi kangangoko ufuna. Masihambe kunye nendlela!
G: Injongo
Inyathelo lokuqala kukuchaza injongo yakho, Oko kukuthi, ukuchaza apho ufuna ukuya khona Eli nyathelo libalulekile ekubeni ube nobomi obufunayo, kuba ekuphela kwendlela yokukufezekisa kukucaca malunga nokuba obu bomi bunjani. le mibuzo ilandelayo kwaye ucinge ngeempendulo zakho kakuhle: Buyintoni kanye kanye ubomi obufuna ukubanabo? Yintoni ongathanda ukuyizuza ekupheleni kwalo nyaka? Yintoni kanye kanye oyifunayo? Ukufezekisa loo njongo, yintoni oyifunayo Ukufikelela kuqala? Zeziphi izinto oziphosileyo namhlanje ukuqala ukusebenza kwinjongo zakho? Iimpendulo zakho kuyo yonke le mibuzo zilolonga yonke into ebandakanya injongo yobomi bakho namhlanje. !! Siyavuyisana !! Sele uyichazile injongo.
A: Yinyani
Inyathelo lesibini lenkqubo kukuhlalutya ukuba injani imeko yakho ngalo mzuzu, oko kukuthi, ukuchaza apho uvela khona. Cinga ngokuzolileyo kule mibuzo ilandelayo ukuze ujonge ubunyani bakho. ngokunxulumene nenjongo yakho? Yeyiphi imiqobo ekuthintelayo ukuba ufikelele usukelo lwakho? Ukuba uzama ukufezekisa injongo yakho, kwenzeka ntoni? Uhlangabezana njani nemiqobo? Zeziphi izixhasi onazo ezikungqongileyo eziza kukunceda ufezekise injongo yakho? Qiniseka ukuba uqaphele yonke into eyenzekayo ebomini bakho namhlanje ngokunxulumene nenjongo yakho, njengoko imeko yakho yangoku iya kuba sisiseko sakho kubomi obufunayo.
Okanye: Iinketho (Ukucaciswa kokukhethwa okanye ezinye iindlela)
Isinyathelo sesithathu sendlela ye-GROW iqulathe ukucacisa iinketho zakho ukufezekisa injongo yakho, oko kukuthi, ekuchongeni iindlela ezahlukeneyo ezinokukhokelela kuyo. Alikafiki ixesha lokukhetha, ke ngoko velisa iimbono ngaphandle kokuzigweba. Okukhona unokukhetha ngakumbi, kokukhona kungcono. Nantsi eminye imibuzo eya kukunceda ngeli nyathelo: Zeziphi iindlela ezinokukukhokelela kwinjongo yakho? Ngokuqinisekileyo zininzi ... zeziphi ezinye iindlela ozibonayo? Ukuba bendikwimeko okuyo, ungandinika eliphi icebo ukufezekisa injongo yam? Ukuba imali ibingengomda, ubunokwenza ntoni? Inzame yokugqibela ... Ngaba unokucinga ngenye indlela? Ngaba uchonge iindlela ezininzi zokuhamba usiya ebomini obufunayo? Ewe ngoku kulapho uya kuzifuna.
W: Ukusongelwa (Isicwangciso soMsebenzi)
Kwaye isigaba sesine nesokugqibela sendlela ye-GROW kukuqwalaselwa kwesicwangciso somsebenzi, oko kukuthi, uyilo lwendlela yakho. Phendula le mibuzo ilandelayo ngokuzinikela ngokwenene. Kuzo zonke izinto onokukhetha kuzo, ukhetha eyiphi? Ngawaphi amanyathelo ekhonkrithi enza loo ndlela? Uya kuwenza nini umsebenzi ngamnye kwisicwangciso? (Chaza ngqo imihla) Ungaqinisekisa njani ukuba uyasiphumeza isicwangciso sakho? Yintoni oza kuyenza namhlanje ukuqala ukuhamba? Kwaye kulapho indlela ye-GROW iphela khona.
Ukusuka kule ndawo ukuya phambili, konke okufuneka ukwenze kukulandela isicwangciso. Gcina amehlo akho evulekile njengoko imeko yakho iguquka ukuze ungaphoswa lithuba elinye ... kuba nje ukuba uqale ukusebenza kwisicwangciso sakho, amathuba ayavela. Ucinga ntoni ngale ndlela? Ungasisebenzisa ekwakhiweni kwakhona kobomi bakho, kodwa nasekufezekiseni iinjongo ezithile. Ngapha koko, ukuba injongo yakho yokuqala ibanzi kakhulu, kungcono ukusebenzisa le ndlela kwisigaba ngasinye owahlule kuso eyona njongo iphambili. Ngale ndlela kuya kuba nzima kakhulu kwaye uya kuqinisekisa ukufika kwakho kumgca wokugqibela. Ngoku yiya kwicandelo lamagqabaza usixelele: Uyileliphi injongo isicwangciso sakho?
Ndingayivuyela into yokuba ungabhalisi kule ncwadana yeendaba kunye nezinye iintlobo zemiyalezo.
Enkosi kuwe.
Oku kubaluleke kakhulu kuba kukho abantu abagxile kwizimvo ezininzi ezinganikwanga (zimile), yindlela elungileyo yokubeka izinto zethu ekusebenzeni kuba uvula iingcinga zakho, iminqweno kunye nokunye, ndithetha kwimeko yam, ngokugqwesileyo.