Xa kufuneka uyile amakhadi omtshato oqobo, uyazi ukuba ayisiyiyo kuphela uyilo olubalulekileyo, kodwa namagama aza kubekwa. Ngoko ke, ngeli xesha, Siza kukunika imibono yokuyila ukuvuyisana okuhle. Kodwa kwakhona, amabinzana onokuwasebenzisa ukuwabandakanya kwaye ubone isiphumo ngendlela enenyani ngakumbi.
Ngaba uyafuna ukwazi ukuba ungayenza njani kwaye wenze isibini sithandane ngolu hlobo? Emva koko nikela ingqalelo kwiingongoma ezimbini ezibalulekileyo.
Indlela yokuyila amakhadi omtshato oqobo
Ukwenza imibuliso yomtshato wokuqala akukho lula njengoko kubonakala. Kwaye kukuba, nangona unokuphefumlelwa ngabanye, kufuneka ukwazi ukwenza into entsha ngokupheleleyo. Kwaye sinokwenza ntoni kule meko? Nanga amanye amacebiso kunye neengcebiso ezinokukunceda:
Sebenzisa isimbo esitsha
Ikhadi elinexesha elidlulileyo, i-futuristic okanye i-retro style, yanamhlanje, kunye nemifanekiso ... Nokuba Unokudibanisa umsebenzi okanye izinto zokuzonwabisa zombini kwaye ngaloo ndlela wenze isitayile esikhethekileyo kubo.
Injongo kukwenza isitayile sekhadi silingane into eniyithandayo nobabini. Kwaye oko akulula ukufezekisa kumakhadi aneetemplates okanye ezenziwe kwangaphambili.
Ngokomzekelo, Ungabandakanya isitayile sothando kunye nomoya othile we-rock. Okanye ebukekayo enethoni eziphikisanayo.
Eyona nto inokukunceda kakhulu kukwazi ubuntu besi sibini, kuba malunga nokuba ukuvuyisana kuyavuyisa bobabini.
Yongeza iifoto
Ukongeza umnxeba wobuqu kunye neemvakalelo, ukubeka ifoto yesibini (mhlawumbi ngokwahlukileyo okanye kunye) ingaba yinqaku lokuqala. Ngaphaya koko, ungazama nge:
Beka ifoto yazo zombini iintsana.
Ifoto yenu nobabini nilele (leyo niyithathile ngobuqili).
Okanye into emnandi kuzo zombini.
Injongo kukuba xa bebona umfanekiso kunye noyilo olukhethayo, bayakhumbula loo mzuzu (kungekhona nje xa ubanika ikhadi, kodwa naxa kuthathwe isithombe). Unokusebenzisa inkqubo ethile ukwenza ifoto eyodwa.
beka into ehlekisayo
Uburharha buhlala bamkelekile, kodwa qaphela, kuba Ukuba isibini asithandi amahlaya, kungcono ukukuphepha.
Nangona kunjalo, ungabeka i-anecdote okanye into eyenza nobabini nihleke kancinci. Isenokuba kukubeka umfanekiso, ibinzana okanye into efanayo esoloko ivelisa uncumo.
sebenzisa izixhobo ezahlukeneyo
Ungasebenzisa izinto ezahlukeneyo ukwenza ikhadi lakho, elifana nephepha elisetyenziswe ngokutsha, ilaphu, umthi, okanye amatye. Oku kuya kongeza umnxeba okhethekileyo kunye nokhethekileyo kumbuliso wakho.
Ngoku, ungacingi ukuba oku kunokwenziwa kuphela ngokwasemzimbeni, ungayenza kwakhona ngokwedijithali, usebenzisa i-textures okanye udale olu hlobo lwemathiriyeli ngeenkqubo zokuhlela umfanekiso.
lungelelanisa umyalezo
Nangona uya kufumana amabinzana amaninzi omtshato wokuqala wokuvuyisana nomtshato ongezantsi nje, kuya kuba kuhle ukwenza umyalezo ukuze ulungele le nto izibini ezifunayo. Ngamanye amazwi, kubalulekile ukuba ufake iinkcukacha abazaziyo ukuba ubhekisa kubo, hayi omnye umntu.
Umzekelo, ukucaphula indawo apho badibana khona, i-anecdote ehlekisayo, njl. isenokuba yinto eya kubenza bazive bechongwa ngakumbi naloo myalezo.
Olunye ukhetho, ukuba ulungile ekubhaleni, kukwenza ingoma okanye umbongo. Ukuba uyakwazi ukufumana abantu abayitolikayo, ngokuqinisekileyo ubuya kubashiya bengathethi (kokubini ngokulungileyo nakukubi, lumka).
Umtshato wokuqala wokuvuyisana namabinzana
Inxalenye yesibini yesihloko esisichukumisayo ngoku ngamabinzana okuqala okuvuyisana nomtshato. Kule meko, Sikushiyela ezinye esiziqulunqileyo kwaye oko kunokusimangalisa isibini.
- Uthando lwenene lufana nemimoya: wonke umntu uthetha ngabo, kodwa bambalwa ababonile. UFrancois de La Rochefoucauld.
- Izinto ezintle ziyenzeka kwabo balindileyo. Sivuyisana nawe. Ndichulumancile kakhulu ngomtshato wakho.
- Namhlanje uqala ubomi obutsha obumangalisayo apho uza kwabelana ngolonwabo, iinkohliso kunye neminqweno. Andithandabuzi ukuba uthando luya kuhlala lukukhapha kwaye ndiyakuvuyela ukukwazi ukungqina.
- Ndiyakuncoma kwaye ndiyavuyisana nawe ngokukwazi ukushiya ngasemva zonke izibonelelo zokungatshati. Andikwazanga uku!
- Ukulwazi uthando lwabo sibathandayo ngumlilo odlisa ubomi. UPablo Neruda.
- Uthando yeyona ntsingiselo yayo yonke into esingqongileyo. Asiyomvakalelo nje elula, yinyaniso, luvuyo olukwimvelaphi yayo yonke indalo. Rabindranath Tagore.
- Umtshato ayisosikhululo sokusingwa, kodwa yindlela ekufuneka uyilandele.
- Umtshato ophumelelayo ufuna ukuthandana amaxesha amaninzi, usoloko nomntu omnye.
- Umtshato uphila ngamaxesha e-3, xa uphupha, xa ubhiyozela kwaye xa uyikhumbula. Sivuyisana nawe!
- Umtshato lulwalamano apho omnye umntu esoloko elungile aze omnye abe ngumyeni.
- Namhlanje uthando lufumaneka kuzo zonke iikona zeentliziyo zethu kwaye sifuna ukukunqwenelela ukonwaba kakhulu ngolu suku lukhethekileyo.
- Ebomini, indlela yomntu iba mnandi ukuyihamba xa ufumana eso sandla sithembekileyo sothandekayo wokwabelana naye ngolonwabo lwakho ngonaphakade.
- Wonwabele lo mzuzu ukhethekileyo, kuba sasicinga ukuba akukho mntu uza kukunyamezela ixesha elide kangaka.
- Ngamana uthando lwakho luhlala lukhula ... njengeerhafu. Sivuyisana nawe!
- Ngoku ukuba utshatile, uya kufunda ubugcisa bokuthi "EWE" xa uthetha ngokwenene "HAYI." Sivuyisana nawe!
- Ngubani owayeza kundixelela ukuba andizukutshata ndodwa. Ngoku uyinxalenye yeqela elikhethiweyo lamadoda athakathiweyo luthando ukuze abe zizidalwa eziphilela kunye nabafazi bazo.
- Eyona mitshato ilungileyo yenziwa kukusebenzisana, ukuhlonelana, ukuncomana, uthando nombulelo ongaphele ndawo.
- Thandanani kwaye niya konwaba. Ilula kwaye inzima njengaleyo.
Njengoko ubona, imibuliso yomtshato yasekuqaleni yenziwe yinkuthazo eninzi kunye nobuchule. Vumela ukucinga kwakho kuqhube kakubi ngelixa unxibelelana naba bantu, ngale ndlela, uya kufumana olona lonwabo lobuqu kunye nolukhethekileyo abaluthandayo. Ngaba ungacinga ngeembono ezingaphezulu ukuze uzenze okanye amabinzana onokuthi uwabeke kuwo?