Uma kufanele uklame amakhadi omshado wangempela, uyazi ukuthi akukona nje ukuklama okubalulekile, kodwa namagama azobekwa. Ngakho-ke, kulesi simo, Sizokunikeza imibono yokuklama ukuhalalisela okuhle. Kodwa futhi, imishwana ongayisebenzisa ukuze uwafake futhi ubone umphumela ngendlela engokoqobo.
Uyafuna ukwazi ukuthi kwenziwa kanjani futhi wenze abashadikazi bathandane kanje? Yibe usunaka amaphuzu amabili abalulekile.
Indlela yokuklama amakhadi omshado wangempela
Ukwenza imikhonzo yomshado yasekuqaleni akulula njengoba kubonakala. Futhi wukuthi, nakuba ungagqugquzelwa abanye, kufanele ukwazi ukudala into entsha ngokuphelele. Futhi yini esingayenza kulesi simo? Nawa amanye amathiphu nokusikisela okungakusiza:
Sebenzisa isitayela esisha
Ikhadi elinesitayela se-vintage, futuristic noma i-retro, yesimanjemanje, enemifanekiso ... Ngisho Ungakwazi ukuhlanganisa umsebenzi noma izinto zokuzilibazisa kokubili futhi ngaleyo ndlela udale isitayela esiyingqayizivele kubo.
Umgomo uwukwenza isitayela sekhadi silingane nalokho enikuthanda nobabili. Futhi lokho akulula ukukuzuza emakhadini anezifanekiso noma enziwe kusengaphambili.
Isibonelo, Ungafaka isitayela sothando ngesimo esithile se-rock. Noma enhle enamathoni ahlukene.
Okungakusiza kakhulu wukwazi ubuntu bezithandani, ngoba okukhulunywa ngakho wukuthi ukuhalalisela kuyabathokozisa bobabili.
Engeza izithombe
Ukwengeza ukuthinta komuntu siqu nokomzwelo, ukubeka isithombe sabashadikazi (ngokuhlukene noma ndawonye) kungaba inothi langempela. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ungazama nge:
Beka isithombe sabo bobabili abantwana.
Isithombe senu nobabili nilele (enisithwebule ngobuqili).
Noma into ejabulisayo kokubili.
Umgomo wukuthi lapho bebona isithombe nge-design oyikhethayo, bakhumbula leso sikhathi (hhayi kuphela lapho ubanikeze ikhadi, kodwa nalapho isithombe sithathwe). Ungase usebenzise uhlelo oluthile ukuze udale isithombe esiyingqayizivele.
beka into ehlekisayo
Amahlaya ahlala amukelekile, kodwa qaphela, ngoba Uma umbhangqwana ungawathandi amahlaya, kungcono ukuwagwema.
Nokho, ungabeka i-anecdote noma into eyenza nobabili nihleke kancane. Kungaba futhi ukubeka isithombe, ibinzana noma into efanayo ehlala iveza ukumamatheka.
sebenzisa izinto ezahlukene
Ungasebenzisa izinto ezahlukene ukuze udale ikhadi lakho, njengephepha eligaywe kabusha, indwangu, ukhuni, noma amatshe. Lokhu kuzongeza ukuthinta okuyingqayizivele nokukhethekile ekubingeleleni kwakho.
Manje, ungacabangi ukuthi lokhu kungenziwa kuphela ngokomzimba, ungakwenza futhi ngedijithali, usebenzisa ukuthungwa noma ukudala lolu hlobo lwezinto ngezinhlelo zokuhlela izithombe.
hlela umlayezo
Nakuba uzothola imishwana eminingi yokuhalalisela yomshado ngezansi nje, kungaba ngcono ukwenza ngokwezifiso umlayezo ukuze uvumelane nalokho abakufunayo lezo zithandani. Ngamanye amazwi, kubalulekile ukuthi ufake imininingwane abayaziyo ukuthi ukhuluma nabo, hhayi omunye umuntu.
Isibonelo, ukucaphuna indawo lapho behlangane khona, i-anecdote ehlekisayo, njll. kungase kube yinto ezokwenza bazizwe behlotshaniswa kakhulu nalowo mlayezo.
Enye inketho, uma ukwazi kahle ukubhala, ukwakha ingoma noma inkondlo. Uma ukwazi nokuthola abantu abalihumushayo, ungabashiya bengawuvali umlomo (kokubili kokungcono nokubi, qaphela).
Imishwana yokuhalalisela yomshado yoqobo
Ingxenye yesibili yesihloko esisithintayo njengamanje imishwana yokuqala yokuhalalisela umshado. Esimweni esinjalo, Sikushiyela ezinye esizihlanganisile futhi lokho kungamangaza umbhangqwana.
- Uthando lweqiniso lufana nemimoya: wonke umuntu ukhuluma ngayo, kodwa bambalwa abaye bayibona. UFrancois de La Rochefoucauld.
- Izinto ezinhle ziyenzeka kulabo abalindile. Siyakuhalalisela. Ngijabule kakhulu ngomshado wakho.
- Namuhla uqala impilo entsha emangalisayo lapho uzokwabelana khona ngezinjabulo, ukukhohlisa kanye nezifiso. Angingabazi ukuthi uthando luyohlezi lukuphelezela futhi ngiyajabula ukukwazi ukukubona.
- Ngiyakuncoma futhi ngiyakuhalalisela ngokuthi ukwazile ukushiya ngemuva zonke izinzuzo zokungashadi. Angikwazanga!
- Ukwazi uthando lwalabo esibathandayo kungumlilo ophakela ukuphila. UPablo Neruda.
- Uthando luyincazelo yokugcina yakho konke okusizungezile. Akuwona umuzwa olula, kuyiqiniso, injabulo esemsuka wayo yonke indalo. Rabindranath Tagore.
- Umshado awusona isiteshi lapho uya khona, kodwa indlela okufanele uyilandele.
- Umshado ophumelelayo udinga ukuthandana izikhathi eziningi, njalo nomuntu oyedwa.
- Umshado uphilwa izikhathi ezi-3, lapho uwuphupha, uma uwugubha nalapho uwukhumbula. Siyakuhalalisela!
- Umshado uwubudlelwane lapho umuntu oyedwa elungile njalo omunye engumyeni.
- Namuhla uthando lutholakala kuwo wonke amagumbi ezinhliziyo zethu futhi sifuna ukukufisela injabulo enkulu ngalolu suku olukhethekile.
- Empilweni, indlela yomuntu iba mnandi ukuhamba lapho uthola leso sandla esithembekile sothandekayo ongabelana naye ngenjabulo yakho ingunaphakade.
- Jabulela lesi sikhathi esikhethekile, ngoba besicabanga ngempela ukuthi akekho ozokubekezelela isikhathi eside kangaka.
- Kwangathi uthando lwakho lungakhula njalo... njengentela. Siyakuhalalisela!
- Manje njengoba usushadile, uzofunda ubuciko bokuthi "YEBO" lapho uqonde ukuthi "CHA." Siyakuhalalisela!
- Ubani owayezongitshela ukuthi ngeke ngibe yisilima esizoshada. Manje usuyingxenye yeqembu elikhethiwe lamadoda athakathiwe ngothando ukuze abe izidalwa eziphilela nabafazi bazo.
- Imishado engcono kakhulu yenziwa ngokubambisana, ukuhloniphana, ukuncoma, kanye nemithamo engapheli yothando nokubonga.
- Thandanani futhi nizojabula. Kulula futhi kunzima njengalokho.
Njengoba ubona, imikhonzo yomshado yasekuqaleni yenziwe ngogqozi olukhulu nokudala. Vumela umcabango wakho ugijime ngendlela engavamile ngenkathi uxhumana nalaba bantu, njengoba ngale ndlela uzothola ukuhalalisela komuntu siqu nokuhlukile kakhulu abakuthandayo. Ungacabanga ngeminye imibono ongayenza noma imishwana ongayibeka kuyo?