Izimiso zisiza uchwepheshe wanoma yiluphi uhlobo. Ummeli uxazulula ukungahambisani kwakhe nohlelo lwezomthetho, isazi sezibalo ngezifundo zakhe sixazulula izingxabano zakhe zezibalo futhi umculi uxazulula izinkinga zakhe zokubuka ngemigomo yokwakhiwa. Noma kunjalo umculi uzisebenzisa njengezimiso, hhayi njengemithetho. Umehluko phakathi kwale mibono emibili ukuthi le migomo iyasiza ukuhlela ubuciko nokuhleleka okuhlelekile, kepha ayiqondisi ubuhlakani ukuveza imizwa nemibono. Lokho kusho ukuthi, ubuhlakani, imizwa kanye nombono ophakeme womculi ungaphezu kwanoma yimuphi umthetho, ngakho-ke lezi zimiso zingasebenza njengesethenjwa, zingasisiza njengeseluleko, kepha hhayi ukusiphoqa ukuthi senze umsebenzi wethu ngendlela ethile.
Okulandelayo sizobuyekeza lezi zimiso zokwenziwa eziyisisekelo kunoma imuphi umklami:
- Iyunithi: Kwenzeka lapho iqoqo lezindikimba ezihleliwe, ezihlobene, zimelela eyodwa kuphela. Into ngayinye endizeni inamandla namandla nokungezwani, iqoqo lalezi zinto namandla azo ahlobene akhiwa njengeyunithi. Inani lamayunithi liphakeme kunesamba esilula sezinto. Singasithola kanjani lesisimiso emisebenzini yethu? Kulungile ngokuqhubeka, ukuphindaphinda noma ukusondela phakathi kwezinto.
- Okunhlobonhlobo: Imayelana nokuhlelwa kwezinto ngaphakathi kwesethi. Inhloso yokuhlukahluka ukuvusa isithakazelo. Kungumphumela wokuba nezinhlobo ezahlukene noma izinhlobo ngaphakathi kwendawo yethu engokomfanekiso nengokomthetho. Imayelana nokwethula lowo mehluko owengeza inani ekwakhiweni okubukwayo nasemcabangweni. Ikakhulukazi ekusetshenzisweni kokuqhathanisa, ukugcizelela, umehluko ngosayizi, umbala ... Okunhlobonhlobo kuyikhwalithi yokuqhathanisa, evumela ubudlelwane bezimo ezahlukahlukene, izibalo noma izakhi, ngezindlela ezahlukahlukene nangemibala ehlukene nemidwebo, kepha kuyisebenzisa kufanele kube nengqondo. Kufanele sisebenzise ukuqonda, ukuqonda kwethu kokubona ukuthola ukuxhumana nokulinganisela, ngoba singawela enkingeni (okuthi inqobo nje uma kungeyona inhloso, kuzoba yiphutha) nokusenza sibe yilolu phiko.
- Qhathanisa: Kusho ukuqhathanisa, ukuqhathanisa noma umehluko ophawulekayo okhona phakathi kwezakhi. Ukusetshenziswa kwayo okuyikho futhi ngaphandle kokuwela ekuhlukumezeni, kuzokwazi ukuqinisa ukuxhumana phakathi kwazo zonke izinto ezakha lo mhlangano. Kubalulekile ngaphandle kwalesi sici singangena ebuhleni obuhle bokuziqhenya, ukuzimela noma kube lula. Ngandlela thile singavala iminyango yokwakheka kwethu, siyilinganise futhi siphuce umthamo wayo amandla. Lokhu kungafinyelelwa ngokusetshenziswa kwamagama amaningi anjengombala, ithoni, ukwakheka, ukuthungwa, usayizi, umugqa, ukuthayipha ...
- Isikhungo sentshisekelo: Sizophinde sikubize ngokugcizelela futhi kungumgogodla noma i-eksisi yokwakheka okususelwa kukho konke okunengqondo. Kulula kakhulu ukubona futhi kuleyo ndawo lapho iso lethu liqondiswe khona ngokushesha lapho sibona umsebenzi. Yilelo phuzu lapho singeke simelane nokubuka, okusheshe kudonse ukunakwa kwethu. Sibheka lokho kugcizelelwa kuqala bese sidlula konke ukwakheka. Lezi zikhungo zenzuzo zibaluleke kakhulu ngoba zihambisana nohlelo lokubona komuntuIsebenza kanjena ingqondo yethu. Udinga ukusesha ngaphakathi kwakho ukuthola incazelo, ukuhumusha. Futhi le nto izosebenza njengokweseka ukusungula yonke imicabango yethu yengqondo lapho siyibona, lapho siyithola. (Ikakhulukazi uma sikhuluma ngokwakhiwa okungokomfanekiso, ekukhipheni kukhona futhi kepha kuyinto esakazeka kakhulu kunkambu yomqondo).
- Ukuphindaphinda: Iqukethe ukukhiqizwa ngqo kwezakhi, ukuzihlukanisa kubheka ukusondela phakathi kwazo, kanye nezici ezibonakalayo ezabiwayo. Ifomu elijwayeleke kakhulu yileli eliqondile, kulokhu izakhi akudingeki zilingane ngokuphelele ukuze ziqoqwe, zimane nje zibe nokuhluka okufana kodwa zinikeze ubuntu emndenini ofanayo. Kungabangelwa usayizi, intaba noma imininingwane yesici.