Ukudala kumayelana umkhuba wansuku zonkeKuqukethe isiyalo, isifundo futhi kubuye kube nokufundela umsebenzi. Labo abatholakalayo ngilinde umzuzu " ukuthola umbono omuhle ngokuqinisekile ngeke bayeke ukubona ukuthi inqubo yokudala uqobo lwayo yenzeka kanjani empeleni.
Ngaphambi kokuthi kukhanyiswe ukukhanya kwanoma yimuphi umqondo omuhle, amakhulu okuxhuma ayenzeka ebuchosheni, ngakho-ke ukuzijayeza bhala kumagazini wokudala, kuvamise ukusetshenziswa kosizo olukhulu ukuze lokhu kuxhuma kwenziwe, kucatshangelwa izici eziningana.
Kungani unejenali yokudala?
Thuthukisa inkululeko yokudala
Lokhu kungenxa yokuthi iphephabhuku lobuciko lamukela noma yini ngaphandle kokwahlulela noma sasaza imicabango yakho. Izidayari zokudala zikunikeza inkululeko eyengeziwe futhi zisusa isisindo esingathandeki sokulindela indlela abantu abasabela ngayo kulokho okudalile futhi lokho ukuthi ngejenali ukhululekile noma ngabe indalo yakho iyasebenziseka yini noma cha.
Ikuvumela ukuthi uhlele futhi ucabange kusengaphambili
Bhala kwelinye iqabunga elixegayo kuyinto esheshayoKodwa-ke, ukukwenza "encwadini engenalutho" kudinga ukuhlela.
Ngokuvamile kunconywa ukuthi useshe ukuxhumana phakathi kokuqukethwe okuhlukile wephephabhuku lakho lokudala, ngale ndlela ungaba nokubonisana okunengqondo okukhulu, hhayi kuphela lapho ubeka imibono ephepheni, kepha futhi nalapho udala ukuxhumana phakathi kwezihloko ezahlukahlukene.
Kuvele kube kuhle kwimemori
Lokhu kungenxa yokuthi indlela engcono yokufunda noma yokugcina imininingwane imvamisa yile idlale futhi uyibuke. Uyakhumbula ngenkathi usesikoleni? Iqiniso lokubhala imininingwane yamakilasi ahlukene ephepheni likusizile ngekhanda lolu lwazi, kepha into enhle ngokuba nenkumbulo enhle ukuthi unempahla eluhlaza ukuvumela ukuxhumana ukuthi kwenzeke.
Ikhiqiza okuqukethwe okuningi
Idayari ngeke izibhale, nguwe okufanele ubeke imininingwane kuyo futhi uma usujabule ngokukwenza, konke kuzoqala ukugeleza kalula ukuze ukwazi khiqiza okuqukethwe kalula ngokusebenzisa ubuhlakani.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, kungashiwo ukuthi okuqukethwe okuzimele okwenzela i-journal yakho yokudala ngandlela thile, kuzoxhuma nomqondo bese kufinyelela ube yisixazululo osidingayo ukwenza iphrojekthi.
Ungaphutha, ngoba asikho isikhathi sokulethwa
Kubuciko unethuba lokuba nephutha njengoba kudingeka, ngoba lawo maphutha angaholela kumqondo omuhle kakhulu.
Ijenali yokudala mayelana nephrojekthi yakho yomuntu siqu lapho konke okwenzayo kulungile, noma ngabe wenza amaphutha kaningi noma uma wephuzile. Ngale ndlela unethuba lokukufeza lokho idayari yakho iba yincwadi yokubhekisela mayelana nezinto oye waphila, wacabanga, wacabanga futhi unesifiso sokulondoloza kwenye indawo.