NgoMashi 19 olandelayo uSuku Lobaba futhi kukhona abaningi asebelungiselele imininingwane ethile ukuze bahalalisele lowo muntu okhethekile. Kanye nalokho ozomnika kona, ukuhalalisela ngoSuku Lobaba kungaba yisandulela saleso sipho ozomnika sona.
Ngakho-ke, kuthiwani ukuthi sikunikeze imibono ukuze ukwazi ukuyisebenzisa njengoba injalo, noma ukhuthazwe ukuthi ugqugquzelwe yikho ukuthi uzenzele eyakho imishwana yokuhalalisela yoSuku Lobaba. Noma ngabe kunjalo, nansi imishwana ethokozisayo.
siyakuhalalisela ngosuku lobaba
Uma usuvele unesipho engqondweni futhi kufanele ukhethe phakathi kokuhalalisela okuningi koSuku Lobaba okuthola ku-inthanethi, sizokwenza kube lula kuwe (noma kube nzima) ngoba sihlanganise ezinye esicabanga ukuthi singaba ngcono kuwe namuhla. Ungababheka kanjani?
Ubaba unokuhlakanipha njengomfundisi nobuqotho bomngane. Usuku Oluhle Lobaba!
Ngineqhawe elikwazi ukwenza yonke into, igama lalo ngubaba.
Impilo ayizi nencwadi yemiyalelo, kodwa ngethemba ukuthi eyami ifike noBaba...
Baba, père, Vater, isä, stop, faoir… Akunandaba ukuthi zingaki izilimi engikhetha ukukutshela ukuthi ubani ongomunye wabantu ababaluleke kakhulu empilweni yami. Ngiyabonga ngakho konke, ngakho-ke, kuze kube phakade.
Akukhona ukuthi ubaba ungcono kunabo bonke emhlabeni, kodwa nguye owayephethe umhlaba wami kusukela ngazalwa.
Umfowethu uyinduduzo. Umngane uyingcebo. UBaba oyedwa bobabili. Benjamin Franklin.
Abazali bazinikele usuku olulodwa ngonyaka, kodwa owami unikezela zonke izinsuku zokuphila kwakhe kimi.
!ápap, erdaP led aíD zileF¡ Uma ufuna ukuchaza umlayezo, kuzodingeka ukuthi uhlole izinzwa zakho. Futhi ungakhonondi, kulula kakhulu… !oreiuq eT¡
Baba othandekayo: ngiyabonga ukuthi awuzange unginikeze ukutholwa, ngokungangixoshi ekhaya ngisemusha, ngokuba nesineke nokunginikeza izeluleko ezinhle (engingazikhumbuli namanje).
Ngihalalisela isoka elikhulu kunawo wonke empilweni yami, elithembekile nelihle kunawo wonke, engibe nalo kusukela ngazalwa, ubaba wami.
Ngoba iNkosi yendlu yethu ihamba lesi sibongela kithi sonke esinithanda kakhulu futhi sinifisela yonke intokozo emhlabeni.
Ungifundise ukugibela ibhayisikili, wangisiza ngomsebenzi wami wesikole, welapha amanxeba… Nawe awufuni ukungikhokhela izikweletu zemoto, akunjalo? Hhayi-ke, okwamanje ngizovumelana nawe ngokuqhubeka nokunginika uthando lwakho olungenamibandela. Usuku oluhle Baba.
Ubaba ufana nomthakathi, uguqula ukudabuka kube injabulo, isithukuthezi sibe ukuzijabulisa, nokuphelelwa ithemba kube inkohliso. Usuku oluhle Baba!
Kobaba abapholile, abadabukile, abanezisu ezimbi, abavikelayo, nababi kunabo bonke obaba be-Facebook: Usuku Oluhle Lobaba!
Baba othandekayo, ubudlelwano bethu busho lukhulu kumelaphi wami engimthandayo. Usuku Oluhle Lobaba!
UCharles Wadsworth uthe lapho owesilisa ebona ukuthi mhlawumbe uyise wayeqinisile, usevele enendodana yakhe ecabanga ukuthi uyise unephutha. Siyakuhalalisela!
Ngothando namandla amakhulu, ngingamemeza kuwo wonke umuntu ukuthi akekho ubaba ofana nowami.
Ubulokhu ukhona lapho ngikudinga, ngaphandle kwalapho ngifuna ukuthenga imoto. Halala, baba!
Angazi ukuthi ngabe ngikuphi njengamanje ukube bekungewena baba... kanye ne-Google Maps, kunjalo.
Nansi i-super chuchón kababa opholile kakhulu. Usuku oluhle Baba!
Ukuba umzali yiwona kuphela umsebenzi okuklonyeliswa kuwo iziqu kuqala bese kuphothulwa iziqu.
Izinga likababa libonakala emigomweni, emaphusheni nasezifisweni azibekela yena kuphela, kodwa nomndeni wakhe.
Into edlula ukuba nawe njengomzali ukuthi izingane zami zibe nawe njengomkhulu. Usuku Oluhle Lobaba!
Lapho umntwana osanda kuzalwa ekhama umunwe kayise okokuqala ngqindi yakhe encane, uyibambekile unomphela.
Lapho ngineminyaka engu-14 ubudala, ubaba wayengenalwazi ngendlela engabekezeleleki. Kodwa lapho ngiba neminyaka engu-21, kwangimangaza ukuthi uBaba wayesefunde lukhulu eminyakeni eyisikhombisa. UMark Twain.
Ubaba kuphela owenza konke okusemandleni akhe ukuvulela izingane zakhe indlela, enza ngesibindi esingenakunyakaziswa izinto uyise amenzela zona. Futhi ngifuna ukunikezela lomugqa kuye: Ubaba kuphela, kodwa indoda engcono kakhulu. Edgar Guest.
Impilo yabazali yincwadi efundwa ngabantwana. San Augustin.
Ubaba wanginika isipho esikhulu kunazo zonke noma ubani angasipha omunye umuntu: wayekholelwa kimi. UJim Valvano.
Umuzi awuchitheki uma usekelwa ubaba onesibindi, umama ohlakaniphile nendodana elalelayo. I-Confucius.
Ubaba akuyena onikeza ukuphila, lokho kungaba lula kakhulu, ubaba uyena onikeza uthando. Denis Nkosi.
Ifa elihle kakhulu elivela kubaba liye ezinganeni zakhe isikhathi sakhe esincane nsuku zonke, u-Leon Battista Alberti.
Angisicabangi isidingo sobuntwana esinamandla njengesidingo sesivikelo somzali. Sigmund Freud.
Lapho udinga ukuqonda kwangempela, lapho udinga umuntu ozokunakekela, lapho udinga umuntu ozokuqondisa… Ubaba uhlala ekhona. Thomas J. Langle.
Ukwethula kanjani ukuhalalisela
Ngaphambi kokukushiya nogqozi lwakho nokukhetha ikhadi elingcono kunawo wonke, asifuni ukukhohlwa ukuthi, njengabadali, singethula amakhadi ngezindlela ezahlukene:
- Ephepheni lokugoqa: ungakha isembozo somuntu siqu ngegama noma inkondlo eyenza lowo muntu aqaphele leyo mininingwane.
- Ku-tie: iphepha noma okufanayo, kodwa lokho kugoqa isipho, njengokungathi uhlobo oluthile lomnsalo.
- Ekhadini: ingeyakudala, kodwa kusemnandi ukuyithola.
- Ku-inthanethi: uma ungakwazi ukuba noyihlo, noma ufuna ukummangaza yonke indawo, ungakha isithombe esinalelo binzana elikhethekile usifake ezinkundleni zokuxhumana, umfake amathegi, noma umthumele i-imeyili ukuze ammangaze. Ukubeka ngamazwi lokho okukulethela lolo suku nokuthi ungajabula kanjani ngokuba noyihlo kuyinto engasoze yacimeka.
Ungacabanga eminye imibono yokuhalalisela uSuku Lobaba?