Ubuhlakani bungaphezulu kwezindlela ezingaphezulu noma ezingaphansi zethiyori ngomkhuba, ubuhlakani buyindlela yokuphila, isimiso esisebenzayo esingasisebenzisa kuzo zonke izici zokuphila kwethu, hhayi ngokomsebenzi kuphela. Ingabe ungumuntu onobuciko? noma ufuna ukuba?
Ukubukeka kokudala emhlabeni Kusho ukuthi sisusa izihlangu, amapayipi, amajazi emvula, nezinye izinto inhloso yazo kuphela ukugwema ukubonakala kwethu nobudlelwano obuncane bomuntu siqu, ukuzibandakanya kwethu kunqubo yokudala.
Balekela ukukhumbula ngekhanda nokuphindaphinda imidwebo, uvuse umcabango, uhlanganise imibono ngokukhululekile, ube nokuhlaziywa okubucayi futhi wenze izixazululo. Yilokho umuntu odala akwenzayo.
Ukudala kuyikhono lokwenza okuthile, ukwethula okokuqala, kukwenze kuzalwe, noma kukhiqize okuthile kusuka entweni engekho. Uma sikhuluma ngokukhangisa, kumayelana nokunikeza isisombululo esingakaze sibonwe ngaphambili enkingeni yokuxhumana, ukudluliswa kolwazi ngomkhiqizo, insizakalo, umbono, umuntu ...
Thola indlela yakho yokudala
Bathi unwabu kalwazi ukuthi luwumbala onjani luze luze luvaleke, njengoba kwenzeka okufanayo nakubantu bokudala. Zisesha njalo incazelo yazo nobukhona bazo, ngenhloso yomsebenzi wazo, zakha indlela yazo yokuphila ... Ngokuzidala kwazo, ziyazichaza, zinikela ngakho konke ezikuncela njengezipanji ezivela kumakhasimende abo, abangani, imvelo kanye nomphakathi .
Yize kukuhle ukwazi ukuthi kunemibono nezifundo eziningi maqondana nendaba ezizama ukuchaza ukuthi umuntu onobuciko unjani, ekugcineni konke kuvivinywa yimizwa yethu njengezidalwa zokudala. Ngamanye amagama, ayikho incazelo eyodwa yesidalwa esinobuciko, ngasinye sinendlela yaso nendlela yaso yobuntu.
Isibonelo, eminingi yale mibono ijwayele ukuchaza umuntu odalile njengonamandla futhi onolaka, lapho lokhu kuyisici esingekho kuzo zonke izinto ezisunguliwe futhi, ingasaphathwa-ke kubaculi. Yize kuliqiniso, kudinga isibindi esithile nokuqina ukuvula izindlela ezintsha, isilinganiso sobuholi nokubekezela okugqoka abantu abanobuciko ngamandla athile, ngobukhona obuhlazisayo.
Ngokuya nge-University of California, - lapho kube nezifundo ezimbalwa kakhulu kumuntu onobuciko nezimpawu zakhe -, umuntu odala ubuciko ungumuntu ozimisele, obekiwe, osebenza kanzima futhi ocophelelayo. Unesithombe sakhe njengomuntu onokwethenjelwa, onqumayo futhi cishe uzizwa ngokuziqhenya nobuholi.
Okuqinisekile ngukuthi amandla ayisici esibalulekile kukho konke okudaliweyo lapho ebhekene nomsebenzi. Sinikeza konke, njengoba kungekho kusasa. Sisebenza kanzima, kodwa ngothando. Kungalesi sizathu amandla ephindaphindeka. Kufana nokuba sothandweni, ukonga ibanga.
Ingabe uzizwa ukhonjwe?
Ukuhlakanipha okukhulu okungokomzwelo nokunengqondo kuyisisekelo sokwakha. Ngaphezu kwalokho, kumayelana nokulingana phakathi kwawo womabili ama-hemispheres, - ngendlela yami yokubona -, enikeza izixazululo zokudala izinkinga kepha ngesisekelo esinengqondo, esicishe sibe sesayensi. Wake wacabanga ngokufana phakathi kwezingqondo zesayensi nezobuciko? Yize ngokusobala okuphambene kungabonakala, bobabili usosayensi nomdwebi basesha njalo izindlela ezintsha nezixazululo ezintsha.
Umuntu odala ubuciko uyazisa kakhulu imibono yobuhle, ngokuqukethwe abangafunda kukho futhi abangakhuthazwa kukho ukuthi baqhubeke nokwenza izinto ezintsha kubuciko babo. Bayisisekelo somsebenzi, indawo yokuqala ukwakha ikusasa.
Ubuciko bungumuntu ozimele, kokubili ngezenzo nangomcabango, othatha imibono yakhe aye nayo ekugcineni. Kuyethula ngandlela thile, kwesinye isikhathi, njengoba imibono ivame ukukhulelwa yodwa, yize bethanda ukuyaba. Kungenxa yalesi sizathu ukuthi ukusebenzisana ngokubambisana (engizokhuluma ngakho kokunye okuthunyelwe) kwesinye isikhathi kuyinkimbinkimbi kakhulu.
Ngifuna ukuxwayisa ukuthi le ndatshana iyinhlanganisela yemibono yomuntu nedatha eqoqwe ezifundweni, ngoba bese kunesikhathi ngicwaninga ngale ndaba. Ngiyacela, makungabikho muntu obona njengokufundiswa ngoba akuyona inhloso yami nhlobo, ukukhuthaza impikiswano omenywe kuyo.
Kunodaba engicabanga ukuthi luyathakazelisa ukulugqamisa ... Ubuciko yisipho okungesiwo wonke umuntu onaso, esingapholishwa futhi sithuthukiswe, esingafundiswa futhi singaxhashazwa kakhulu, kepha kunzima kakhulu, kuthole uma kungenjalo unayo njengokujwayelekile. Angicabangi ukuthi kukhona engikwaziyo okungatholwa njengomuntu ofunda ukubhukuda noma ukugibela ibhayisikili, kungamakhono amaningi onawo noma ongenawo futhi kufanele wazi. Kunezindlela eziningi zokuqamba kepha wena unjalo noma awukho, kulo msebenzi kunezikhathi lapho ukhohlwa khona futhi hhayi wonke umuntu onalo lelo khono
Ngokuphelele ngokwe-dashaft, lesi "sipho" siqala ukubonakala ebuntwaneni, okuyilapho siqala khona ukuthuthuka nokukhulisa, ukusithola kamuva kunzima kakhulu, futhi kunzima ukufinyelela ezingeni elinamandla ... kepha okungafanele kube okukhohliwe ukuthi kufanele uqhubeke nokuthuthuka futhi uyithuthukise kuyo yonke impilo yakho, ngoba lapho "usukhululeka" uvame ukubheka okulula futhi uwele kokuvamile, uyeke ukuba nobuciko bokuba ngumshini. =)